Readings
1 Thessalonians 2.9–13
Matthew 23.1–12
While servant leadership is a timeless concept, the phrase “servant leadership” was coined by Robert K. Greenleaf in The Servant as Leader, an essay that he first published in 1970. In that essay, Greenleaf said:
“The servant-leader is servant first… It begins with the natural feeling that one wants to serve, to serve first. Then conscious choice brings one to aspire to lead. That person is sharply different from one who is leader first, perhaps because of the need to assuage an unusual power drive or to acquire material possessions…The leader-first and the servant-first are two extreme types. Between them there are shadings and blends that are part of the infinite variety of human nature.
“The difference manifests itself in the care taken by the servant-first to make sure that other people’s highest priority needs are being served. The best test, and difficult to administer, is: Do those served grow as persons? Do they, while being served, become healthier, wiser, freer, more autonomous, more likely themselves to become servants? And, what is the effect on the least privileged in society? Will they benefit or at least not be further deprived?“
A servant-leader focuses primarily on the growth and well-being of people and the communities to which they belong. While traditional leadership generally involves the accumulation and exercise of power by one at the “top of the pyramid,” servant leadership is different. The servant-leader shares power, puts the needs of others first and helps people develop and perform as highly as possible. — https://www.greenleaf.org/what-is-servant-leadership/
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I enjoy reading David Hayward, who writes and cartoons under the name ‘Naked Pastor’. Sometimes his stuff is amusing, other times enlightening, sometimes disturbing. I really think he loves it when people are disturbed by what he says.
Often, his words are quite thought provoking. Just last week, he wrote that he’d made a discovery:
the more spiritual I think I am, the more of a dick I am.
He actually ‘discovered’ this when his wife told him so. He says ‘that was a huge and painful revelation’.
The more spiritual I think I am, the more of a dick I am. Naked Pastor says that applies more to men than women. Well, you might say, obvs.
There are many stories of men whose spiritual high-flying caused difficulties for those around them. So we hear that the personal lives of men like Martin Luther King and Karl Barth were far from above reproach. We hear that John Howard Yoder and Jean Vanier abused women in their pastoral work. It’s not just Christian men; Gandhi used to sleep naked with underage girls to test his ability to resist temptation.
But they were all such good teachers, we say. Perhaps it’s not helpful for a spiritual leader to believe what people say about them. Maybe spiritual leaders should keep in touch with the realities of sin that are within each one of us.
Matthew has Jesus confronting the Pharisees in our reading today. They were spiritual men. But by the time Matthew wrote his Gospel, Jews and Christians were making life very difficult for each other. So Matthew presents the Pharisees as those who made life hard for Jesus. We don’t know how historical this is, or how much of it was written later; its value for us is not as history but as a warning against the wrong type of spiritual leader. Too much of Christian history has been taken up with Christians persecuting Jews, and sadly at the moment there is an uptick across the world of behaviour that is antisemitic, as well as islamophobic.
So: we can see why Matthew has Jesus arguing against the Pharisees. It fits Matthew’s context. What we need to know is what kind of Christian leadership is helpful. The first thing Jesus says is
The scribes and the Pharisees sit on Moses’s seat; therefore, do whatever they teach you and follow it …
If someone is teaching Christian truth, spiritual truth, any truth, have the grace to listen. There are plenty of people whose voices I just cannot hear well. But if they speak truth, I should have the grace to listen.
But, Jesus says,
do not do as they do, for they do not practise what they teach.
‘Practise what you preach’ is a word anyone who preaches needs to hear from time to time. It’s dangerous to preach. Anyone who thinks otherwise is either ill-informed or just fooling themselves.
It’s also a word that anyone who leads in any way needs to hear.
Do you have a role in the church? Practise what you preach.
Do you have people under your authority at work? Practise what you preach.
Are you responsible for a child? Practise what you preach.
Does anyone look up to you in any way? Practise what you preach.
That should cover most of us. We all need to practise what we preach.
We can say more. A Christian leader is a servant. The word ‘minister’ means ‘servant’. To minister is to serve. We all have opportunities to minister, whether we happen to be called ‘ministers’ or not.
Jesus rails against those who lead from on high, who hand down orders, who ‘tie up heavy burdens, hard to bear, and lay them on the shoulders of others, but they themselves are unwilling to lift a finger to move them’.
Paul’s description of his work in Thessalonica showed that he grasped what being a servant leader is:
You remember our labour and toil, brothers and sisters; we worked night and day so that we might not burden any of you while we proclaimed to you the gospel of God. You are witnesses, and God also, how pure, upright, and blameless our conduct was toward you believers. As you know, we dealt with each one of you like a father with his children, urging and encouraging you and pleading that you lead a life worthy of God, who calls you into his own kingdom and glory.
These are not the words of one who places burdens on people’s backs, rules about what they can’t do, or must do, to please God; they are the words of one who shows the way by serving. ‘We worked night and day so that we might not burden any of you while we proclaimed to you the gospel of God‘.
In general, we can say this about servant leadership:
… the goal of the leader is to serve. This is different from traditional leadership where the leader’s main focus is the thriving of their company or organisation. A servant leader shares power, puts the needs of the employees first and helps people develop and perform as highly as possible.
Servant leaders put people before profits. In a church context, a servant leader wants people to grow in spiritual gifts. A servant leader puts the welfare of people above their personal vision for the ‘success’ of a congregation. Whatever success is in a congregation; do you know what that is? Personally, I think congregations are called to be a place where people thrive and grow in Christlikeness. Numbers? They are quite secondary.
A servant leader leads through service. It’s about setting an example, about being empathic, about being with people where they are.
It’s about the example of Jesus, who washed the feet of the disciples on his last night on earth. ‘Yesu, Yesu, fill us with your love, show us how to serve the neighbours we have from you.’
I said before that when men especially become conscious of our spiritual progress, we are inclined to become dicks. I think it’s because — and this is a huge overgeneralisation — we men tend to equate leadership with being the boss, asserting our dominance.
Another overgeneralisation, maybe: women who find themselves leading tend to be more nurturing from the beginning. They may be surprised to realise that they are viewed as leaders, they may be prone to have more of an imposter syndrome, where they feel they are badly playing a leadership role that they are ill-equipped for. They may find it hard to step into the leadership space with confidence.
All this is to say there may be gender differences in how people approach servant leadership. Let’s be conscious of these differences, work with them, and support one another.
Let me end with words of Jesus from Mark’s Gospel, chapter 10:
You know that among the gentiles those whom they recognise as their rulers lord it over them, and their great ones are tyrants over them. But it is not so among you; instead, whoever wishes to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wishes to be first among you must be slave of all. For the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve and to give his life a ransom for many.
Whoever we are, we have many and varied opportunities for servant leadership, putting the welfare and growth of others above our own ego. It’s part and parcel of following the way of Jesus.
West End Uniting Church, 5 November 2023